Comments on: I can’t make the decision http://www.myfightwithdepression.com/blog/i-cant-make-the-decision/ Depression & Anxiety Blog Mon, 19 Apr 2010 20:48:14 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: saintopm http://www.myfightwithdepression.com/blog/i-cant-make-the-decision/comment-page-1/#comment-3106 saintopm Thu, 10 Sep 2009 14:11:52 +0000 http://www.myfightwithdepression.com/blog/?p=66#comment-3106 Hi, And what did you all do to get over these issues?? Hi,
And what did you all do to get over these issues??

]]> By: Janet http://www.myfightwithdepression.com/blog/i-cant-make-the-decision/comment-page-1/#comment-833 Janet Sat, 01 Nov 2008 11:59:27 +0000 http://www.myfightwithdepression.com/blog/?p=66#comment-833 I had a very bad experience today all because I could not make up my mind. I went shopping for groceries by myself for the 1st time in about 6 years. Everything was so confusing, plus the store was redesigned since the last time I was there. I can hardly get out of my house due to anxiety and depression. It will be hard to grocery shopping again with anybody. I don't have anymore friends. No one understands my problem that I know. Being African-American, no one understans my daily life struggles because I am told I just have the blues and pray. I do pray, which they do not understand because they feel as if I prayed I would not have this problem. I have to take my medicine, but my family does not want me to take the drugs. I feel as if I have to have my meds or I will get very sick again. So nice to find someone else with the same issues of anxiety and getting out of the house. I had a very bad experience today all because I could not make up my mind. I went shopping for groceries by myself for the 1st time in about 6 years. Everything was so confusing, plus the store was redesigned since the last time I was there. I can hardly get out of my house due to anxiety and depression. It will be hard to grocery shopping again with anybody.
I don’t have anymore friends. No one understands my problem that I know. Being African-American, no one understans my daily life struggles because I am told I just have the blues and pray. I do pray, which they do not understand because they feel as if I prayed I would not have this problem.
I have to take my medicine, but my family does not want me to take the drugs. I feel as if I have to have my meds or I will get very sick again.
So nice to find someone else with the same issues of anxiety and getting out of the house.

]]> By: Rose Park http://www.myfightwithdepression.com/blog/i-cant-make-the-decision/comment-page-1/#comment-485 Rose Park Thu, 04 Sep 2008 15:50:31 +0000 http://www.myfightwithdepression.com/blog/?p=66#comment-485 Man! I thought I was the only one who couldn't make a decision. I have dysthymia depression and ADD. I start worrying what I am going to wear the night before and then I obscess about it over and over. I have to look perfect. I have low self-esteem and it drives me crazy. Thank you for posting this, I don't feel so alone. Man! I thought I was the only one who couldn’t make a decision. I have dysthymia depression and ADD. I start worrying what I am going to wear the night before and then I obscess about it over and over. I have to look perfect. I have low self-esteem and it drives me crazy.

Thank you for posting this, I don’t feel so alone.

]]> By: ngys255 http://www.myfightwithdepression.com/blog/i-cant-make-the-decision/comment-page-1/#comment-466 ngys255 Tue, 02 Sep 2008 14:24:42 +0000 http://www.myfightwithdepression.com/blog/?p=66#comment-466 My best friend went through something very similar about a year ago. I remember getting a hysterical call from her and not being able to understand what was wrong. When I turned up at her house I found her sprawled out in the middle of the floor sobbing her heart out. It was then I found out the real reason why she had been cancelling meeting up with me so much recently. We both know now thought that she was suffering from low self-asteem and her anxiety was making her unable to make everyday decisions. Im so glad I was there to help her through it, if im honest had she not of called me that day I probably would still be none the wiser. It is easy to try not to burden people with your problmes or feel they may laugh at you or think your strange. We do have to remember that this is exactly what friends and family are for. My best friend went through something very similar about a year ago.
I remember getting a hysterical call from her and not being able to understand what was wrong.
When I turned up at her house I found her sprawled out in the middle of the floor sobbing her heart out.
It was then I found out the real reason why she had been cancelling meeting up with me so much recently.
We both know now thought that she was suffering from low self-asteem and her anxiety was making her
unable to make everyday decisions.
Im so glad I was there to help her through it, if im honest had she not of called me that day I probably would
still be none the wiser.
It is easy to try not to burden people with your problmes or feel they may laugh at you or think your strange. We do have to remember that this is exactly what friends and family are for.

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